The Apostle Paul
Ephesians 5:33WEB·traditional attribution

Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

Matthew Henry Presbyterian

All Christians owe one another mutual submission in reverence for God, yielding and not lording it over each other. Where this spirit rules, husbands and wives will discharge their duties well: the church's submission to Christ teaches wives their part, and Christ's love teaches husbands theirs.

AI summary

Commenting on Ephesians 5:21-33

John Calvin Reformed

33. Nevertheless, let every one. Having digressed a little from this subject, though the very digression aided his design, he adopts the method usually followed in short precepts, by giving a brief summary of duties. Husbands are required to love their wives, and wives to fear (φοβὢται) their husbands, understanding by fear that reverence which will lead them to be submissive.

Geneva Bible Notes Reformed

Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband. (16) The conclusion both of the husband's duty toward his wife, and of the wife's toward her husband.