The Apostle Paul
Ephesians 5:28ASV·traditional attribution

Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his own wife loveth himself:

John Calvin Reformed

28. He that loveth his wife. An argument is now drawn from nature itself, to prove that men ought to love their wives. Every man, by his very nature, loves himself. But no man can love himself without loving his wife. Therefore, the man who does not love his wife is a monster. The minor proposition is proved in this manner.

Matthew Henry Presbyterian

All Christians owe one another mutual submission in reverence for God, yielding and not lording it over each other. Where this spirit rules, husbands and wives will discharge their duties well: the church's submission to Christ teaches wives their part, and Christ's love teaches husbands theirs.

AI summary

Commenting on Ephesians 5:21-33

Geneva Bible Notes Reformed

So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. (14) Another argument: every man loves himself, even by nature: therefore he strives against nature that does not love his wife. He proves the conclusion, first by the mystical knitting of Christ and the Church together, and then by the ordinance of God, who says that man...